Verse 1
A Wise Son or a Scoffer
The contrast in this verse, indicated by the word “but”, is that of “a wise son” and “a scoffer”, a scoffing son. It is to be understood as an introductory verse. We see this contrast again and applied in the following verses in numerous daily situations.
A wise son will embrace the “discipline” of his father. He accepts his father’s discipline, he keeps and appreciates it, he respects it and acts accordingly. ‘Accepts’ is not written in the text, which is indicated by the brackets. From the second line of the verse it can be derived that ‘accept’ or ‘listen’ is meant. But it can also mean embrace or keep or respect or other positive valuations. The line can even be rendered as follows: “A wise son [is the fruit of] his father's instruction” (Darby-translation in a footnote). In this sense, he owes his wisdom to his good education. Because he is wise, he has listened, and because he listened, he is now wise.
The scoffer laughs at his father when he disciplines him. “Discipline” is a stronger word than instruction. As powerful as the father may address his son, when the son is a scoffer, he will not listen. He cuts himself off from it, he doesn’t want to learn from it. In that way he leaves the atmosphere of fatherly love which is necessary for his spiritual and emotional development. Whoever doesn’t accept parental discipline, will not listen to God’s discipline either. Both are intended to show the son the way of blessing and to be a blessing.
A scoffer finds himself on the highest level of foolishness. He has no respect for authority, he blasphemes religion, and because he thinks to know what is best, he rejects every teaching. The change into the stronger word ‘rebuke’ in the second line of the verse shows that he doesn’t respond to any kind of discipline.
He who has true wisdom, acknowledges that a person who has more experience, can prevent him from stumbling on the path that he goes. It is a new, unfamiliar way to him, but not for the experienced father. He who is not wise and doesn’t listen, he who is a scoffer and despises the instruction of an ‘experience expert’, will learn through bitter experiences what he would have been spared if he had listened.