Verses 1–2
To Love Knowledge and Obtain Favor
Proverbs 12:1 is a good illustration of the fact that love is not about a pleasant emotion. To accept “discipline” is often not that simple. To accept discipline, you ought to love it. You do that when you realize its importance. It comes down to whether we are explicitly willing to accept discipline or that we don’t want to accept discipline. When we are willing to accept discipline, we will love discipline. It is a love that has to be learnt. The other case, to hate “reproof”, happens quite automatically. That’s how we are by nature.
He who wants to grow spiritually, must learn to accept “discipline” or correction and to learn from it. Therefore it is necessary for one to act freely as a pupil towards the one who is disciplining him. It shows the humble mind of someone who does not think highly of himself. The one who disciplines him, can be God Who speaks through His Word to him. God can also speak through a person, whosoever, or through an event.
“Whoever loves discipline”, which means that a person longs to be disciplined, shows that he loves “knowledge”. Discipline is linked to “knowledge”. It is about the knowledge of God and Christ, which is to know God’s will to live to His honor. In order to gain knowledge, it is necessary to make efforts by training. When it is about “the knowledge of Jesus Christ, my Lord” (Philippians 3:8), there can be no way that is too tough and no cost that can be too high. There is no easy way to spiritual knowledge. Eve chose the easy way and sin made its entry.
The second line of the verse begins with “but” which indicates that now the contrast follows to the first line of the verse. There are two contrasts: “hate” stands against love and “stupid” against knowledge. “He who hates reproof”, despicably refuses and rejects it, acts foolishly and stupid like an animal without sense. To hate means to have an aversion to something. That aversion comes from the arrogant heart that doesn’t want to know about reproof. Whoever hates reproof, shows the stupidity of an animal that does not realize that it is in his interest when it is being hurt.
“A good man” (Proverbs 12:2) is he who is good by the grace of God, for “there is none who does good, there is not even one” (Romans 3:12). “None is good, but one: God”, which is the Lord Jesus (Mark 10:18). He who has Him as his life, can also be good and therefore can also do good. A good man is full of goodness, which is only to be worked by God’s Spirit. Goodness is a part of the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22).
A good man wants only what God, the good One, wants and what is expressed by the Spirit. That delivers him “the favor from the LORD”. God relates Himself to him, for he recognizes Himself in him. There is harmony between the good man and the good One. This applies to each believer who walks with God. It applies to Christ above all. He is the perfect good Man and also the perfect good God. As Man He obtained God’s favor.
The opposite of the man who is full of goodness, stands the man “who devises evil”. In such a person there is no goodness; he has no life from God. He acts after his sinful nature, which appears from the ways he devises to harm other people. Such a person does not obtain the favor of God, but a declaration of guilt. Here we see that not only a sinful deed makes a person guilty before God, but also devising evil. Absalom was a man full of evil ideas, who sought to dethrone his father David, to seize the power to rule (2 Samuel 15:2-Joshua :).