Verses 1–5
Ruth - Chapter 3
Naomi Advising, vs. 1-5
It seems apparent that Naomi had designs relative to a match-up between Boaz and Ruth from the very first day of Ruth’s gleaning. The relationship having survived all through the harvest, and Boaz having not made any move himself, she decided to take the initiative. Perhaps Boaz was timid; it is hard to feel, from his display of feeling for Ruth’s welfare, that he did not have tender thoughts of her. Naomi made clear to Ruth that she wished to effect marriage between them.
The custom Naomi adopted for Ruth to apprise Boaz of her desire to marry him is quite strange to modern thought. There is no further enlightenment concerning it in the Scriptures, and to the Christian mind it might even seem immoral. There was certainly no immoral intent on the part of Naomi and Ruth, nor was there any immorality involved, as shall be seen.
Ruth was to prepare herself by bathing and anointing herself and dressing in her best raiment. She was to go secretly to the threshing floor that evening while Boaz was winnowing the barley. Winnowing was the manner in which the chaff was removed from the grain. In the late evening, as the land cooled off from the day’s heat, the breezes would blow in from the Mediterranean Sea. So the men picked this time to winnow the grain. It would be tossed into the breeze, which would blow out the chaff while the heavier grain would fall on to the winnowing sheet again.
Ruth was to see where Boaz lay down to sleep when the winnowing was over, but not to discover herself until he had finished his evening meal and gone to sleep. Then she was to go quietly and uncover his feet and lie down there. Here she would remain until he became aware of her presence, at which time he would inform her what she should do. Ruth agreed to follow her mother in law’s instructions.