Verse 1
THE LAW OF LOVE AND DOUBTFUL THINGS
1) "We then that are strong ought," (opeilomen de hemeis hoi dunatoi) "What is more, we who are dynamic, strong, or physically well and able, ought," have an obligation, a moral and ethical responsibility, a Christian duty. The strong in the faith must bear, forbear, or bear with the weaker in the faith, bear with the less stable, Galatians 6:2;
. 2) "To bear the infirmities of the weak," (ta asthenemata ton adunaton bastazein) "To continually bear the weaknesses, physical afflictions and emotional afflictions, infirmities of those who are not strong or dynamic any more," of those whose body and mind are ravaged, broken down, or decrepit by reason of age and sin working in the body --and of the crippled, afflicted or deformed by birth, Acts 20:35; 1 Thessalonians 5:14.
3) "And not to please ourselves," (kai me heautois areskein) "And not to continually please ourselves;" The bearing and caring for the aged is almost totally ignored by so many Christians in the affluent society of the day. Selfishness, greed, and preeminence of "self-first" pervades the present age, while lonely and forlorn aged fathers and mothers are left to suffer physical and emotional pangs in lonely deserted sorrow. Such ought not to be. Even children whom parents brought into the world, fed, clothed, provided medicine when they were ill, seldom come to their side, write, call or send oft-needed financial help any more. Children for whom they once gave their lives, food, clothes, and shelter, turn a deaf ear to their prayers. Sons and daughters in good strength of years, too often go blindly on ignoring their parents physically and emotionally broken plight, while they go headlong along "pleasing themselves."
To please ones self alone is cruel selfishness when a weak and wrecked infirm one lays by helpless and in physical, emotional, and spiritual need of care and comfort, Matthew 25:41-45; 2 Corinthians 1:3-4. A believer is to give support and show compassion to the weak and infirm, even of all ages, Matthew 8:17.