Verses 1–4
GENESIS - CHAPTER THIRTY-THREE
Verses 1-4:
Jacob crossed the Jabbok after his nocturnal encounter with the Angel of Jehovah. He has full, rich assurance, that as he had prevailed with God, so now he must prevail with man. Still, he took precautions to assure safety to at least a part of his family if Esau should come in hostility. He divided his family into three groups: Bilhah and Zilpah and their children comprised the front group, the one first to encounter Esau. Leah and her children formed the second group. Rachel and Joseph were last in line. This grouping was intended to allow part of his family to escape should the need arise.
Jacob saw Esau and his soldiers approaching. He went ahead of the three groups of his family to meet his brother. He bowed "to the ground," not completely prostrating himself but bending the upper part of his body until it was parallel to the ground. This was an expression of great reverence and respect, still evident in Oriental lands today. Jacob continued to bow, "seven times," not in servile hypocrisy but in genuine politeness and an attempt to conciliate his brother.
Esau accepted Jacob’s expression of good will, and graciously extended his pardon. It may be inferred that Jehovah had moved in Esau’s heart to melt the bitterness he harbored against his brother. A conciliatory attitude, a genuine spirit of kindness, an expression of grace - these often produce a like response in one who has been offended, see Pr 15:1; 21:1; 16:7.
The meeting of Jacob and Esau is filled with drama and beauty. It is typically Oriental. And it is indicative of Jehovah’s keeping His promise to go before Jacob to protect and bless him in his return to the Land of Promise.