Verse 1
DOMESTIC CONDUCT OF BELIEVERS, WHETHER: (1) Children, (2) Parents, (3) Slaves, of (4) Masters
1) "Children obey your parents" (ta tekna hupakouete tois goneusin humon) "Children obey ye, or give heed to your parents." As the wife is to be in subjection or submission to the husband in fear and reverence, so the children in the home are to be in obedience to their parents. Disobedience of a child to his father or mother was described as a dark sin in the Old Testament, bringing severe judgment on the stubborn and disobedient, Proverbs 1:8; Proverbs 6:20; Proverbs 23:22; Proverbs 30:17.
2) "In the Lord" (en kurio) "in (the) Lord." In the Divine order of family government, for saved and unsaved, obedience of children to parents was to be "in the Lord," in the sense that it is in the will of the Lord for family order ’of behavior and government It is the higher will of God that parents be "in Him," Colossians 3:20; Luke 2:51.
3) "For this is right" (touto gar estin dikaion) "For this (obedience) or giving heed is a right thing," to do, or a righteous thing to do, Exodus 20:12; Matthew 15:4. Disobedience to parents is described as one of the more vicious sins of end times, despised of the Lord among the Gentiles, as well as the Jews, Romans 1:30; 2 Timothy 3:2.
A DAUGHTER’S DISOBEDIENCE
A missionary was passing along the streets of London, and he ’taw a little girl lying asleep on the steps in the night, the rain beating in her face, and he awakened her and said, "My little girl, what do you here?" "Oh!" she replied. "My father drove me out and I am waiting until he is asleep, and then I am going in." Then she told the story of her father’s drunkenness. That night, after her father was asleep, she went back and laid down in the house. In the morning she was up early, preparing the meal, and her father turned over, waking up from his scene of drunkenness and debauch, and he saw his little child preparing breakfast, and he said to her, "Mary, why do you stay with me?" "Oh!" she said, "Father, it is because I love you." "Well," he said, "Why do you love me when everybody despises me, and why do you stay with me?" "Well," she said, "Father, you remember when mother was dying, she said to me: ’Mary, never forsake your Father; the rum fiend will some day go out, and he will be very good and kind to you, and my dying charge is, don’t forsake your father;’ and I never will, father, I never will. Mother said I must not, and I never will."
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