Abner Routed; Asahel Slain, vs. 18-32
Now there occurs a very significant event which affected the reign of David throughout its existence. Three sons of David’s sister, Zeruiah had risen to prominence among his men. Joab, the oldest, is here noted for the first time, but will be the most prominent later as the captain of the host. Abishai, the second, has already been found a valiant and courageous servant of his uncle, David (see 1 Samuel 26:6 ff). The youngest was Asahel, whose death at the hands of Abner on this occasion, had lasting results which led to the execution of Joab (1 Kings 2:28-34). He was among the mighty men of David (2 Samuel 23:24; 1 Chronicles 11:26).
The forces of Abner and Israel were scattered following their defeat by the men of Joab and David, many of them fleeing from the battle. Among these was Abner the captain. Asahel is said to have been "as light of foot as a wild roe," and he went in pursuit of Abner to kill him. As he was overtaking Abner that one inquired whether he was Asahel. When Asahel replied affirmatively Abner advised him to turn aside to combat one of the younger soldiers and take his armor. But Asahel persisted in following Abner.
When Asahel was just about to overtake Abner the captain again advised him to turn aside from following him lest Abner should kill him and be answerable to Joab as a consequence. Asahel refused, so Abner stopped and rammed the butt of his spear into the side of Asahel, under the fifth rib. It was a lethal blow, aimed at the heart and delivered with such strength, coupled with the force of Asahel’s running, that the spear went all the way through Asahel’s body.
When the soldiers of David reached the spot where Asahel died they halted. Joab and Abishai, however, continued pursuit of Abner, but were unable to take him. In fact Abner rallied his men on the hill of Ammah, near Giah, in the wilderness of Gibeon. The sun was setting by this time, and Abner accosted Joab as to why he continued the pursuit knowing that it would only result in bitterness in the end. How long would it be, he asked, before Joab called off this civil war between brethren?
The questions and the answer of Joab are somewhat enigmatical. It appears that Abner is chiding Joab for fighting against Israel, perhaps desiring that they be allowed to maintain their rival kingdom in peace. Joab’s reply may be in sarcasm; that if Abner had not spoken the people of Judah would have given up the war the next day. It is unclear what Joab or Abner meant. Perhaps Joab meant that if Abner had not spoken by his spear in slaying Asahel his brother things might have been worked out amicably.
Nevertheless Joab blew the trumpet to gather his troops and stop the battle. Abner and his men walked all night and crossed the Jordan through the Bithron, or rift valley of the river, and came to their seat of government at Mahanaim. Joab and his men had lost nineteen in the battle, and Asahel. The special notice of Asahel shows his prominence in the army of David. Abner had lost three hundred and sixty men in the fray.
The body of Asahel was taken up and carried to Bethlehem where he was buried in the tomb of his father. This reference indicates that his father, who is not named in the Scriptures, was already dead before the prominence of David. Joab and his army returned to their home base at Hebron.
Lessons from chapter two: 1) Favors bestowed will reap benefits for a future time of need; 2) a conciliatory attitude is good toward those who have been former enemies if in the will of the Lord; 3) continued efforts to frustrate the Lord’s will never accomplish their intended purpose; 4) unwise zeal in a purpose may end in destruction of the one promoting it; 5) continued strife always leads to more and greater sorrow when conciliation is in order.