The Vilifying Shimei, vs. 5-14
Bahurim was on the east slope of the mount of Olives, not far from Jerusalem. All this area extending to the Jordan valley was in the tribe of Benjamin, which was the tribe of king Saul. The Benjamites had followed the lead of their fellow tribesman, Abner, in making David king, but Shimei is indication that there long remained some dissatisfaction within the tribe.
It was a foolhardy thing which Shimei did, coming out cursing and reproaching David, casting rocks and dirt upon him and his mighty men. He could have expected to lose his life for such a show of disrespect to the king, especially with the mighty men protecting David on every side. Shimei reproached David as a bloody man of Belial, receiving just desert at the hand of his son, Absalom, for his taking the kingdom from the family of Saul. He purportedly believed that God was punishing David for the blood of Saul and his family. This was preposterous, of course. Everyone knew that David had not tried to make himself king, and that it was Saul who sought to kill David.
Loyal Abishai, brother of Joab and nephew of David, was ever ready to punish any who threatened his king. Years before he had stood with David against Saul (1 Samuel 26:7-9), and he had acquired a captaincy among the mighty men (2 Samuel 23:18-19). In Abishai’s eye Shimei was as no account as a dead dog, and he requested permission to go over and take off the head of the offender.
David refused Abishai’s request and his words are somewhat puzzling. First, though, should be noted David’s feeling toward Abishai and his brother, Joab, the sons of Zeruiah, David’s sister. He wanted nothing to do with them. .
It appears likely that David felt these two hard and cruel men were the source of many of his troubles and perhaps of much of the dissatisfaction of the people with the kingship. It was the younger
brother, Asahel, who forced Abner to kill him in a fight and thus provoked the blood feud with him. Then they had murdered Abner, when David was trying to consolidate the kingdom (2 Samuel 2:18-23; 2 Samuel 3:27-30). It was Joab who had persuaded David to recall Absalom from exile, when David was unwilling to do so. They had some kind of strangle-hold on David from which he seemed unable to extricate himself.
But what could David have meant in saying God had told Shimei, "Curse David?" This event is a part of the Lord’s judgment upon David for his sin years before in committing adultery with Bathsheba and murdering Uriah, her husband. David had brought the curse upon himself, and God had allowed it to fall.
David was paying a fourth installment in the fourfold repayment he suggested with reference to the rich man who slaughtered the poor man’s lamb, (2 Samuel 12:5-6). One by one he had lost 1) the little son of Bathsheba, 2) his beautiful daughter Tamar, 3) his firstborn son Amnon, and now 4) his handsome son Absalom. If his own offspring could rise against him and seek his life, who should forbid the cursing of this Benjamite?
David believed in the mercy of the Lord, for he had often experienced it. Thus he hoped the Lord might grant him mercy in these present afflictions brought on him by Absalom and Shimei (Psalms 69:16). If God should grant him mercy He would return David to the throne and requite him for the cursing of Shimei.
Thus David continued on his way, and Shimei continued to vilify him, cast his rocks and dirt on him and his people all the way to their destination. They paused at last, weary, to refresh themselves.